No Pain No Gain?

Dear Mistress Ingrid,

I’ve always wanted to visit a Mistress, but don’t like pain. What should I do?

My Answer:  The most common myth is that a session has to involve pain.  It does not.  You might enjoy sensation play, where instruments and toys are used at a much milder level as part of your fantasy domination role play.

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